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Every second Friday of the month, HoS hosts Lip Service, our pervy-community-building make-out party...think of it as rated R instead of X. This is the place to get to know your fellow kinksters and get approved for the more naughty play parties -- like Countdown, which is held every fourth Saturday of the month. Throughout the year, we also present Bedroom Badass, a series of poly- and kink-friendly relationship workshops, and other unpredictable one-off events. Details for upcoming events are below.

PAL/volunteering note: If you're a HoS regular in good standing, and your PAL is absent for a play event, you can volunteer for setup/breakdown, and attend without a PAL and at a reduced rate. If you're new to our parties, you cannot attend without a PAL under any circumstances. Lip Service always requires a PAL / doesn't have volunteer roles.


Every second Friday: Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party)

Upcoming 2017 dates: Aug 11, Sep 8
Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife | RSVP below

10pm-late, 21+ (25+ suggested), $15 with RSVP/$20 without
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - address form below
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?). Foreplay happy hour 10-11pm with $4 beer and $5 well drinks.

Think of our makeout parties as community mixers--a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, and maybe even find a future PAL--before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also a way for us to vet you in person for such parties (talk to us at the event).

Dress to be kissed: flirty, sexy and fun. No casual or business attire; door man WILL turn you away. TimeOut said it best: "convention-busting clothing with a sexy, creative flair" -- point being that you're the kind of person that already dresses this way, not someone trying to force themselves into a costume just to get in. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). Please don't email us asking what to wear: getting past this challenge is part of the process, and draws a community of like-minded arty freaks togther.

Note for straight male-male PALs: This is a pansexual event welcoming ALL shades of gender & sexual self-identity. Come prepared to participate in sexy party games that include other men, as well as queer or trans individuals. If you can't handle mild physical contact with another man in the context of a party game, this is not the right event for you. Be forewarned: our doorman might ask you to kiss each other at the door. If you're only coming to hit on girls, you're breaking our "no cruising" rule and are not welcome.

Note for hetero couples: That last sentence applies to you too. No unicorn hunters, please.

Lip Service RSVP
Please supply an email for each PAL, so we can match you at the door and get in touch if needed.
No unique email = not an RSVP = pay full price at door.
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Sat, July 29: Countdown: a pansexual play party

Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife

10pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested)
$30 before July 14 10 incl at 7.14 Lip Service / $40 after / $50 door to pre-approved members in good standing, if available
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - use form below for address
To buy tickets: email us with a link to your and your PAL's Facebook or other detailed online profile to get approved ["scorpio" at this site]
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

Part cocktail party, part makeout party, part play party. The countdown begins when doors open at 10pm: it's a mix-and-mingle cocktail party for the first hour. At 11, all regular makeout party rules apply: all the clothes stay on, and all playtime is PG13-rated. But at 12am, all restrictions lift; the door is locked, and the party can take its natural course. Please arrive by 11:45pm, though you can leave anytime.

Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish, lingerie and costume attire always welcome. No casual or business; door man WILL turn you away. See Lip Service description above for acceptable dress code. We also have a helpful thread on good menswear on our FB group (feel free to add recommendations).

If you haven't been to our loft, we have: lots of couches, massage tables or other play surfaces; a fake-grass rooftop "lawn" to get playful on; beams, upright posts and an outdoor point to rig to; and complete privacy from the street. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?). This being a full-on play party, other toys are welcome too. We'll provide basic safety supplies, but you should always come prepared.

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Please note: this does NOT mean you're approved to buy tickets at door



Coming Fri, Sep 15, 2017: Saints & Sinners: pop-up strip club party

See the previous strip club photos on Facebook here

Friday, Sep 15, 9pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
$30 presale for 9pm-12am entry / $40 at door before 12am / $20 after (door sales as capacity allows, and only for pre-approved members in good standing); reserved seating: $50-100
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - use form below for address
To buy tickets: email us with a link to your and your PAL's Facebook or other detailed online profile to get approved ["scorpio" at this site]
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

For one night only, our sexy clubhouse becomes a full-on strip club, with two stages, a pole, and an array of lap dance-ready seating....and yes, we'll even have a couples-friendly Champagne Room. There will be eight(!) dancers to entertain you: each a hand-picked burlesque, pole or circus star stepping outside the boundaries of their genre to spend the whole night dancing for you on stage and in your lap. Featuring:

Once the dancers are done, both stages are yours to shake your booty on and turn on fellow HoS members. Live out your strip fantasies on our stage as DJs Ceremony and Stylus provide the beats late into the night.

Plus: The Royal Raffle. The Royal Seats are the most coveted spot in the house: *on* the stage, two feet away from the dancers. They're part of the Royal Package ticket level (see below), but we'll also run a raffle for one hour in the seats & a bottle of champagne for any spots not reserved via the tickets. See door, bar or waitstaff for raffle tickets.

Rules of the club: the usual Lip Service dress code & code of conduct apply (Countdown rules in Champagne Room). Read the website. Dress up. Tip generously. Get lap dances (they're the best part, and only $10). Respect the dancers. Keep your hands to yourself. Nudity is fine on the stage, but no private parts on our furniture.

Because seating is limited, we're doing timed entry 9-11pm: you may arrive anytime after your time slot, but not before. Additional ticket levels include:
- Reserved Tables, $50: 9pm admission + a seat at a 4-person table with a view of both stages + wait service + access to reserved lap dance seat
- The Royal Package, $200 for two: 9pm admission + reserved table seats + two seats *on* the main stage for one hour of the event + bottle of champagne + two handmade royal crowns for you to keep. Only four sets available: 9:30pm/10:30pm/11:30pm/12:30am (you can buy two hours for $300). Please contact us directly with your desired times if you want this option. Any remaining Royal Seat slots will be raffled away!

Enter email for loft address:
Please note: this does NOT mean you're approved to buy tickets at door