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Every second Friday of the month, HoS hosts Lip Service, our pervy-community-building make-out party...think of it as rated R instead of X. This is the place to get to know your fellow kinksters and get approved for the more naughty play parties -- like Countdown, which is held every fourth Saturday of the month. Throughout the year, we also present Bedroom Badass, a series of poly- and kink-friendly relationship workshops, and other unpredictable one-off events. Details for upcoming events are below.

PAL/volunteering note: If you're a HoS regular in good standing, and your PAL is absent for a play event, you can volunteer for setup/breakdown, and attend without a PAL and at a reduced rate. If you're new to our parties, you cannot attend without a PAL under any circumstances. Lip Service always requires a PAL / doesn't have volunteer roles.


Every second Friday: Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party)

Upcoming 2017 dates: Sep 8, Oct 13, Nov 10
Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife | RSVP closed; please come to door

10pm-late, 21+ (25+ suggested), $15 with RSVP/$20 without
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - address form below
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?). Foreplay happy hour 10-11pm with $4 beer and $5 well drinks.

Think of our makeout parties as community mixers--a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, and maybe even find a future PAL--before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also a way for us to vet you in person for such parties (talk to us at the event).

Dress to be kissed: flirty, sexy and fun. No casual or business attire; door man WILL turn you away. TimeOut said it best: "convention-busting clothing with a sexy, creative flair" -- point being that you're the kind of person that already dresses this way, not someone trying to force themselves into a costume just to get in. Fetish attire, formalwear, lingerie, corsets, tutus and costumes always welcome...and we consider those unisex options (the more colorful and outrageous, the better). Please don't email us asking what to wear: getting past this challenge is part of the process, and draws a community of like-minded arty freaks togther.

Note for straight male-male PALs: This is a pansexual event welcoming ALL shades of gender & sexual self-identity. Come prepared to participate in sexy party games that include other men, as well as queer or trans individuals. If you can't handle mild physical contact with another man in the context of a party game, this is not the right event for you. Be forewarned: our doorman might ask you to kiss each other at the door. If you're only coming to hit on girls, you're breaking our "no cruising" rule and are not welcome.

Note for hetero couples: That last sentence applies to you too. No unicorn hunters, please.

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Every fourth Saturday (if our loft is available): Countdown: a pansexual play party

Upcoming 2017 dates: Sep 23, Oct 21, Nov 18 or 25 (TBC)
Event on Facebook | Event on Fetlife

10pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested)
$30 before Sep 8 incl at 9.8 Lip Service / $40 after / $50 door to pre-approved members in good standing, if available
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - use form below for address
To buy tickets: email us with a link to your and your PAL's Facebook or other detailed online profile to get approved ["scorpio" at this site]
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

Part cocktail party, part makeout party, part play party. The countdown begins when doors open at 10pm: it's a mix-and-mingle cocktail party for the first hour. At 11, all regular makeout party rules apply: all the clothes stay on, and all playtime is PG13-rated. But at 12am, all restrictions lift; the door is locked, and the party can take its natural course. Please arrive by 11:45pm, though you can leave anytime.

Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish, lingerie and costume attire always welcome. No casual or business; door man WILL turn you away. See Lip Service description above for acceptable dress code. We also have a helpful thread on good menswear on our FB group (feel free to add recommendations).

If you haven't been to our loft, we have: lots of couches, massage tables and other play surfaces; a fake-grass rooftop "lawn" to get playful on; beams, upright posts and an outdoor point to rig to; and complete privacy from the street. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?). This being a full-on play party, other toys are welcome too. We'll provide basic safety supplies, but you should always come prepared.

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Fri, Sep 15, 2017: Saints & Sinners: pop-up strip club party

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See the previous strip club photos on Facebook here

Friday, Sep 15, 9pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested)
$30 presale for 9pm-12am entry / $40 at door before 12am / $20 after (door sales as capacity allows, and only for pre-approved members in good standing); reserved seating: $50*
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - use form below for address
To buy tickets: email us with a link to your and your PAL's Facebook or other detailed online profile to get approved ["scorpio" at this site]
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct

For one night only, our sexy clubhouse becomes a full-on strip club, with a pole stage, an array of lap dance-ready seating....and a play-friendly Champagne Room. There will be six dancers to entertain you: each a hand-picked burlesque, pole or circus star stepping outside the boundaries of their genre to spend the whole night dancing for you on stage and in your lap. Featuring:

Once the dancers are done at 1am, the stage is yours to shake your booty on. Live out your strip fantasies on our stage as DJ Ceremony provides the beats late into the night.

Rules of the club: the usual Lip Service dress code & code of conduct apply / Countdown rules in Champagne Room. Read the website. Dress up. Tip generously (dancers, wait & bar staff). Get lap dances (they're the best part, and only $10). Respect the dancers. Keep your hands to yourself (or your partner). Nudity is fine on the stage, but no private parts on our furniture.

*Reserved seats ($50) include: 9pm admission + a seat at a 4-person table with a view of both stages + wait service + access to reserved lap dance seat

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Sun, Oct 15, 2017: Sex Lit: Stoya's Book Club

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Sunday, Sep 17, 6-9pm, 21+ (25+ suggested), $20
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - use form below for address
No PAL or dress code requirement, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies

The body's largest sex organ is the brain. Come stimulate yours with a rousing discussion of a classic sexuality book led by pornographer Stoya. Drinking encouraged throughout, and mingling will follow the talk.

Stoya's Book Club, a teaser.

Your book for this edition of Sex Lit is Ann Rice's "The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty." The Sleeping Beauty Quartet is a series of four novels written by Anne Rice under the pseudonym of A. N. Roquelaure (The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, Beauty's Punishment, Beauty's Release, and Beauty's Kingdom). They are erotic BDSM novels set in a medieval fantasy world, loosely based on the fairy tale of Sleeping Beauty. Highlights include both maledom and femdom scenarios amid vivid imageries of bisexuality, homosexuality, ephebophilia and pony play.

This should be obvious, but: read the book before joining the book club!

In case you've been living under a rock: Stoya has been a pornographer for over a decade. She was awarded Best New Starlet by her industry, and is most known for her appearance in Clayton Cubitt's Hysterical Literature.

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New! Coming soon before Nov 10 Lip Service: Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer)

Fri Nov 10, 8-10pm (before Lip Service), $15 salon only / $25 with Lip Service*, 21+ (25+ suggested),
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - address form below
No PAL requirement, but Code of Conduct and dress code rules apply

A perfect sexy introduction to everything we do: burlesque and variety performances, charming hosts making social introductions -- and no PAL requirement, to encourage first timers.

For those of you new to it all: direct introductions to members new and old, detailed facilitated discussions on poly, kink and swinger lifestyles, icebreaker games to get you in the mood. For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene, a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later, a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around. For everyone: delightful burlesque and variety, a charming host to make the introductions, and an informal setting for conversations and future kisses.

Your host and social connector for the night: Kita St Cyr, the caramel cutie with the apple booty. Featuring the talents of: Delysia La Chatte, Audrey Love and Chris McDaniel. Stage kitten: Dolly Would. This delightful evening is created for you by Kita St Cyr on behalf of House of Scorpio.

The evenings end with the first round of Spin The Bottle going into Lip Service (for those with PALs, of course).

*Purchasing combo tickets does not guarantee entry to Lip Service. PAL requirement, Code of Conduct and dress code rules apply for Lip Service attendance (see Lip Service invite above for dress code details).

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