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Upcoming events at a glance

Fri 4.13 - Lip Service
Sun 4.15 - Bedrom Badass
Thur 4.26 - Under Cover
Sat 4.28 - Countdown
Sat 5.12 - Eros: Red
Sun 5.20 - Sex Lit

We host a few ongoing monthlies, from mixers to full-on playtime. Under Cover (every third Thur of the month), our pervy-community-building mixer, is the best place to start if you're new, want facilitated introductions and detailed explanations of how it all works -- and would enjoy seeing and mingling with some weird & wonderful burlesque and variety performers. If you're feeling more adventurous, our makeout party Lip Service (every second Fri) is the event we're most well known for...think of it as rated R instead of X. It's also the place to get approved for the more naughty parties -- like Countdown (every fourth Sat).

Our third Sundays of the month are all about creating sexiness for your brain, not just your body, by alternating Sex Lit, our erotic book club with famed pornographer Stoya, with her erotic film club, Rated Sex, and, if Stoya is not in town, Bedroom Badass, a series of poly- and kink-friendly relationship workshops). And a few times a year we throw down with Saints and Sinners, a luscious creeper-free pop-up strip club, and Eros, our unique co-production with the famed upscale erotic performance party LUST. And of course you never know what other unpredictable sex-positive events we may come up with. Dates and details for all upcoming events are below and are easiest to receive via our mailing list, just to the right -->



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Every fourth Thursday: Under Cover (burlesque salon & HoS member mixer)

Upcoming 2018 dates: Apr 26, May 24
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8pm-12am, $10 including show / poly special: 3 tix for $25, 21+ (25+ suggested)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or dress code requirement, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies

Calling all poly, swinger, kink, LGBTQIA and other "alternative" dating, sex & gender folks and their allies. We're creating a protected and judgment-free space for connections, conversations and community.

For those of you new to it all: direct introductions to HoS members new and old; facilitated discussions on poly, kink and swinger lifestyles; icebreaker games to get you in the mood. For our regulars: a way to ease new friends into our scene; a chance to meet all the new faces you may want to kiss later; a visit with the community even if your PAL is not around. For everyone: gender-fucking burlesque and variety, a charming hostess to make the introductions, and an informal setting for conversations and future kisses.

8-9pm: games and direct introductions with your host and social connector for the night, Kita St Cyr, the caramel cutie with the apple booty. 9-10pm: mingle with and enjoy performances by gender-bending burlesque performers. 10pm-close: drinks & socializing. This delightful evening is created for you by Kita St Cyr on behalf of HoS.

Please note: while no PALs are required to attend this event, we are serious about keeping all our events a zero-creeper zone. We appreciate everyone helping us call out those who break our Code of Conduct and make guests feel uncomfortable -- please speak up to them directly, and report them to our host & staff. We would also love to work with our regulars to create an official safety monitor team; please get in touch.



Every second Friday: Lip Service (a pansexual kissing & cocktails party)

Upcoming 2018 dates: Apr 13, May 11, June 8, July 13
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9pm-late, 21+ (25+ suggested), $15 with RSVP/$20 without
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct, including dress code

NEW FOR 2018! We are moving our member mixer & burlesque lounge Under Cover to its own night, but in the meantime we want to try something new. We'll be opening doors an hour early, and our fabulous burlesque hostess and social connector Kita St. Cyr will be here 9-11pm to introduce new members to old timers, explain how the whole HoS thing works, and generally make a delightful fuss over your presence. There's no separate door cover for this pre-makeout mixer - it will be included in Lip Service cost. We're going to bring back our foreplay happy hour 9-10pm with $2 PBR, $4 Yuengling and $6 well drinks.

Bring your luscious lips (yours and your PAL's), and join us for lubricating cocktails and naughty games with sexy friends and intriguing strangers. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?).

Think of our makeout parties as community mixers--a place to get to know your fellow kinksters, introduce a partner to a more playful lifestyle, and maybe even find a future PAL--before attending the more naughty play parties. It's also the place to get approved for those events & buy tickets for each month's Countdown.

Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish, lingerie and costume attire always welcome. No casual or business; door man WILL turn you away. See Code of Conduct for detailed dress code description.

Note for straight male-male PALs: This is a pansexual event welcoming ALL shades of gender & sexual self-identity. Come prepared to participate in sexy party games that include other men, as well as queer or trans individuals. If you can't handle mild physical contact with these guests in the context of these games, this is not the right event for you. Be forewarned: our doorman might ask you to kiss each other at the door. If you're only coming to hit on girls, you're breaking our "no cruising" rule and are not welcome.

Note for hetero couples: That last sentence applies to you too. No unicorn hunters, please.



Every fourth Saturday (if our loft is available): Countdown: a pansexual play party

Upcoming 2018 dates: March 24, April 28
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10pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested), approval required for ticket purchase
$30 before Jan 12 incl at 1.12 Lip Service / $40 after / $50 door to approved members in good standing, if available
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
You must arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct, including dress code

Part cocktail party, part makeout party, part play party. The countdown begins when doors open at 10pm: it's a mix-and-mingle cocktail party for the first hour. At 11, all regular makeout party rules apply: all the clothes stay on, and all playtime is PG13-rated. But at 12am, all restrictions lift; the door is locked, and the party can take its natural course. Please arrive by 11:45pm, though you can leave anytime.

Dress to be kissed: sexy and fun. Fetish, lingerie and costume attire always welcome. No casual or business; door man WILL turn you away. See Code of Conduct for detailed dress code description.

If you haven't been to our loft, we have: lots of couches, massage tables and other play surfaces; a fake-grass rooftop "lawn" to get playful on; beams, upright posts and an outdoor point to rig to; and complete privacy from the street. Bring toys & games to share (blindfolds? rope? sexy dice?). This being a full-on play party, other toys are welcome too. We'll provide basic safety supplies, but you should always come prepared.



Every third Sunday: Sex Lit (Stoya's Book Club)

Upcoming 2018 dates: May 20
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6-9pm, 21+ (25+ suggested), $20 (limited tickets)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or dress code requirement, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies

The body's largest sex organ is the brain. Come stimulate yours with a rousing discussion of an explicitly erotic book led by pornographer Stoya. Drinking encouraged throughout, and mingling will follow the talk.

Your book for this edition of Sex Lit is House of Holes: A Book of Raunch by Nicholson Baker. It consists of a series of chapters that are more or less connected (some more, some less) which tell of the sexual and emotional experiences of a variety of characters in a kind of sexual fantasy land, the titular "House of Holes". The third "dirty novel" by Baker, it is praised by many reviewers for the inventiveness of its language.

This should be obvious, but: read the book before joining the book club!

In case you've been living under a rock: Stoya has been a pornographer for over a decade. She was awarded Best New Starlet by her industry, and is most known for her appearance in Clayton Cubitt's Hysterical Literature.



Every third Sunday, if Stoya is not around: Bedroom Badass

Upcoming 2018 dates: April 15: Scene Negotiation & Pick-Up Play with Vonka
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6-9pm, 21+ (25+ suggested), $20 (limited tickets)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
No PAL or dress code requirement, but HoS Code of Conduct always applies

Whether you're hoping to try something new with your established partner or with a willing stranger at a play party, you need to know how to approach the request, negotiate boundaries, and carry out the scene with respect and maximum satisfaction for everyone involved. This class will have a special emphasis on kink scenes, as they require more negotiation and our teacher is a kink & BDSM expert, but is a great learning tool for any new sexual experience.

Some topics to be covered:
- Approaching the scene, from self analysis to the actual request
- What happens after a "yes"? Boundary exploration and negotiation
- Deeper exploration of specific limits to consider
- Aftercare and follow-up

We'll provide you with any relevant props and exercise breaks to make your learning hands-on, and, as always, will leave dedicated Q&A time to allow you to speak directly to our teacher.

Our teacher: Vonka is a BDSM event organizer, and burlesque & fetish performer. Vonka has been a sex worker and active leader in the kink community for eight years. Her experiences range from orchestrating both small and large group sex scenes to extreme S&M.

Bedroom Badass is our series of workshops to take couples and individuals through various steps in opening up their relationships, or in exploring more adventurous sexual experiences. We've noticed there are many of you for whom our parties are that exciting first step, and we thought we could help you along the way by having these small, dedicated, hands-on sessions.



Friday, March 2: Saints & Sinners: pop-up strip club party

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See the previous strip club photos on Facebook here

9pm-3am, 21+ (25+ suggested), approval required for ticket purchase
$25 presale for 9pm-12am entry / $30 at door before 12am / $20 after to approved members in good standing, if available / reserved seating: $50*
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct, including dress code

For one night only, our sexy clubhouse becomes a full-on strip club, with a pole stage, an array of lap dance-ready seating....and a play-friendly Champagne Room. There will be six dancers to entertain you: each a hand-picked burlesque, pole or circus star stepping outside the boundaries of their genre to spend the whole night dancing for you on stage and in your lap. More featured dancers TBA!

Once the dancers are done at 1am, the stage is yours to shake your booty on. Live out your strip fantasies on our stage as DJ Ceremony provides the beats late into the night.

Rules of the club: the usual dress code & code of conduct apply / Countdown rules in Champagne Room. Read the website. Dress up. Tip generously (dancers, wait & bar staff). Get lap dances (they're the best part, and only $10). Respect the dancers. Keep your hands to yourself (or your partner). Nudity is fine on the stage, but no private parts on our furniture. Come early for the best seats!

*Reserved seats ($50) include: 9pm admission + a seat at a 4-person table with a view of both stages + wait service + access to reserved lap dance seat



Saturday, May 12 - Eros: Red

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9pm-late (doors close at 11:45pm), 21+ (25+ suggested), approval required for ticket purchase
$50-70 (all ticket levels offer the same access to the event; please support at the level you can afford)
Gemini & Scorpio Loft, Gowanus, BK - fill out form on top of page for address auto-reply
Please arrive with a PAL and be familiar with our Code of Conduct, including dress code

A night of sensory exploration from House of Scorpio, purveyors of the infamous underground makeout & play parties, and LUST, makers of extravagant erotic nightlife. Eros is a unique combination of erotic performance and physical experience, with multiple "sensation stations" for you to experience everything from softest touch to pain-as-pleasure. Ask and you shall receive permission to engage in a night of hedonistic abandon.

A night of sensory exploration, with multiple "sensation stations" for you to experience everything from softest touch to pain-as-pleasure. Ask and you shall receive permission to engage in a night of hedonistic abandon. The night begins with Lip Service style make-out sessions, Spin the Bottle and other games, and turns into an everything-permitted play party after 12am.

Featured stations:
~ Massage
~ Violet Wand
~ Hot wax play
~ Blindfolded touch
~ Mini dungeon and roaming dommes
~ Plenty of play areas for your full satisfaction

Come prepared for a night of full immersion and interaction. The night begins with Lip Service style make-out sessions, Spin the Bottle and other games. Touching, nudity & kink play are encouraged throughout, but please wait until midnight to fully engage with your partners, when the party rating goes from NC-17 to decidedly X. You can BYO toys and devices. At least one suspension point provided.

Strict dress code for a full fantasy environment: over-the-top sexiness, decorated nudity, lingerie, fetish, leather, lace, latex, silk, rubber, fur, vinyl, straps, corsets, tutus, steampunk, neo-Victorian, goth, dark Lolita, dandy, fantasy, festival. TimeOut said it best: "convention-busting clothing with a sexy, creative flair." If in doubt, go formal. No casual or business attire; door man WILL turn you away. Yes, you can change when you get here.

These are CLOSED and strongly vetted events, not open to the general public. Please read the HoS site for full rules of engagement. Tickets are extremely limited and will go fast.